Being around good people with good energy is priority.
We have this hero complex where we think we're always the exception to the rule. We're not addicted to our phones, it is everyone else. The age of pointing fingers. We don't get influenced by advertising, that is everyone else. We are too smart, "woke", or whatever word we want to use to decorate our delusions.
A large one is assuming we can influence others, without them influencing us. We have great chemistry, horrible chemistry, and everything in between with people, but it is chemistry none the less, and no one walks away the same after we cross paths. There's no shortage of people who need support, we all do, but some of us haven't taken the very crucial first step: helping ourselves.
When you have good energy, you'll attract other good energy, but you'll also attract energy that's toxic. Everyone is worth helping, and even absorbing some of that toxic energy, until they're not worth it. My personal rule is to help those who are already helping themselves. People who help themselves are simply people who recognize that their situation may no be their fault, but it is their responsibility. We'll all spend time in the dumps we'll need to take time to adjust, cry at the sky, punch the wall, and wallow away in self pity; that self-compassion is important.
I encourage everyone to take that time unapologetically, healing doesn't speed up for no one.
The next phase is to begin taking steps and finding power within yourself to move forward, and connect with others on that same journey, and support each other. Having a healthy relationship with ourselves means protecting our ecosystems. It's noble to want to be a breath of fresh air for others, but we have to mindful of the smog that we're taking in as well. Protect your peace, the most you take care of yourself, the more energy, time, love, and focus you can devote helping others.
Make sure there's something in your cup so you can share that overflow.
- M
We have this hero complex where we think we're always the exception to the rule. We're not addicted to our phones, it is everyone else. The age of pointing fingers. We don't get influenced by advertising, that is everyone else. We are too smart, "woke", or whatever word we want to use to decorate our delusions.
A large one is assuming we can influence others, without them influencing us. We have great chemistry, horrible chemistry, and everything in between with people, but it is chemistry none the less, and no one walks away the same after we cross paths. There's no shortage of people who need support, we all do, but some of us haven't taken the very crucial first step: helping ourselves.
When you have good energy, you'll attract other good energy, but you'll also attract energy that's toxic. Everyone is worth helping, and even absorbing some of that toxic energy, until they're not worth it. My personal rule is to help those who are already helping themselves. People who help themselves are simply people who recognize that their situation may no be their fault, but it is their responsibility. We'll all spend time in the dumps we'll need to take time to adjust, cry at the sky, punch the wall, and wallow away in self pity; that self-compassion is important.
I encourage everyone to take that time unapologetically, healing doesn't speed up for no one.
The next phase is to begin taking steps and finding power within yourself to move forward, and connect with others on that same journey, and support each other. Having a healthy relationship with ourselves means protecting our ecosystems. It's noble to want to be a breath of fresh air for others, but we have to mindful of the smog that we're taking in as well. Protect your peace, the most you take care of yourself, the more energy, time, love, and focus you can devote helping others.
Make sure there's something in your cup so you can share that overflow.
- M
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