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Year of the blog: Day #30 - 20-Something things I've learned in 20-something years.

February 1st, 2018

Day #30


IT IS MY BIRTHDAY! So this means it is time for a cheesy message incoming...

I am thankful that I get to wake up everyday in a country where I have the privilege to work and go to school.

I am thankful for the opportunity to share my thoughts, most times without filter with the general public (and not be silenced).
I am thankful for the healthcare system that Canada has in place. No, it is not perfect, but I don't know where I would be without it.
I am thankful to have the chances in life to make a difference, no matter how big or small.
I am thankful for having a lot of people in my life who care about me, whether it be for 365 days of the year, or for just today.
This was the first birthday that just felt like a normal day. Then I get some pretty cool notifications, calls, texts and hugs that make me realize that I've made it pretty far in life, and that is worth celebrating.

Then it got me thinking, I am approaching my mid 20's and have done quite a bit for being so young. In all of my experiences, I've gained new lessons and have even learned more about myself.

So here is 20-something things I've learned in my 20-something years:

#1). People will talk about you no matter if it's about success or failure.
#2). There isn't enough time in the day.
#3). I work better on no sleep the older I get.
#4). I have more ambition the older I become.
#5). Is yawning contagious? I feel like it is.
#6). I know more about Star Wars/Harry Potter/Disney and their histories than Canadian history.
#7). I have no regrets going into healthcare first before theatre.
#8). The sun does come out tomorrow, but sometimes clouds can block it. Luckily, those clouds are only temporary.
#9). 'Controversial' children's books aren't as popular as 'fluff' children's books.
#10). Musical Theatre can define my life easily.
#11). Comparing yourself to others gets you no where, but comparing yourself to the person you've left behind yesterday does!
#12). Some things aren't worth the stress.
#13). If it's meant to be, it will happen. But things only happen with hard work and trust.
#14). A small little lump can cause a large amount of pain.
#15). Following your heart may cause heartbreak to others, but once they see that you are ultimately happier, their hearts will heal quickly! If not, then it's their loss, and not yours!
#16). Don't live your life for anyone else but yourself.
#17). Speaking up and out is hard, but necessary.
#18). You have a larger support system than you realize.
#19). You find your truest friends in the weirdest places.
#20). I may not remember what I ate yesterday, but I can remember show lyrics like it's my job.
#21). Water is so so so so so important.
#22). It is okay to push yourself.
#23) But knowing your limits and learning when to "take a break" is just as important.

I've learned many more significant points, and I am sure that I could be profound in my statements, but I am content and enjoying my cup of tea.   

- M

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